I made the title as a joke and was gonna name it something more legit like "Second time coming out" but I just found it so damn funny for literally no reason so I'm keeping it

I wanted to make a post mostly for my own archiving purposes, but in case anyone else is interested for some odd reason.

I have concluded that I am asexual.

Years ago, I came out to my family that I was gay, and it was smooth sailing. My parents have always been really cool open minded people (I mean, my mom's bi), so there were no problems whatsoever. A couple years later, I've concluded that I was non-binary, realizing that I don't really care to fit in as a male (which is my birth gender) but I'm not a transgender female either, I'm just kinda whatever I want to be.

Over my lifetime, I've always known I had absolutely no interest in relationships with girls, and I've been a little moreso with guys, but for the last year or so, I realize that I legitimately don't care about sexual aspects of any relationship.

I thought I was demisexual, which is sort of "half asexual", thinking maybe I'd only be comfortable with someone if I had known them longer, but all things considered, I really can't see myself doing all that.

That being said, I most certainly know I'm homoromantic (or whatever it'd be called since I'm non-binary lol). I'd definitely be okay with a romantic partner at most, but they'd probably have to see someone else if they want something more, y'know?

So all this considered, I feel kind of more "free" in a sense. I don't have to feel like sexuality will be a required part of having a relationship with someone. I can just be myself, y'know? I think that's the most important part of being a human, is being your truest self. Anyone who has a problem with your sexuality (or lack thereof) are just jealous lmao.

Anyway I just wanted to write this just cause. I usually never post anything personal online, but I figure maybe I dunno, someone might read this and have similar thoughts they'd like to share or something.